I love watching Eric with another woman across the room. Saturday nights are late nights. We catch a cab home together and debrief about the evening.

We climb into bed exhausted but satisfied. Alice and Eric are regulars on the swinger club scene. Sunday is fun day.

After a sleep in, we lie in bed with coffee and rehash the evening, which usually ends leads to another romp. We invite some swinger friends over for a casual BBQ.

One of the best things about being part of our community is that we are super social and enjoy hanging out with like-minded people.

Eric and I have one particular couple we both love to spend time with. When the chemistry is good between the four of you, your senses simply explode.

A cacophony of hands touching you, mouths all over your body. The sensory overload is awesome. Our work friends have no idea what we do for fun and if they did, frankly, I think their brains would burst.

Monday night we just hang out like any regular couple. Ranch uses 'donkey love' as de-stressing technique. This story has been shared 50, times.

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Deine Club-App ermöglicht ein respektvolles Miteinander. In fact, we soon realized the scene is all about asking before you initiate any sort of contact with someone.

That was a welcome relief for us, especially after the pressure my wife had previously received from the aforementioned husband. As we met more and more couples who were understanding and patient, who were happy to stop the moment one of us hesitated, we realized that there are some truly good and decent people in the lifestyle.

And as we got more comfortable, we started being willing to do more. That led us to three years' worth of conversations about how far we were willing to go, what exactly we were looking for within the scene, and above all else, how we were in this together.

We didn't want to end up in a situation where one of us was like, "I'm bored. I'm going out fuck-hunting.

If I get lucky, I'll see you tomorrow, loser! After three years of dabbling in local mixers without ever really hooking up with any other couples , we decided to take the next step: our first big out-of-town event.

In Las Vegas, of course, because duh. This one was going to be a four-day takeover of an entire hotel, with over 1, swingers in attendance.

As we were packing for the trip, we psyched ourselves up for what we were sure would be a massive hour orgy of writhing bodies.

We had another long discussion about how far we were willing to go "Let's just go for it all" was our consensus this time , and we showed up with roughly every condom produced that year.

Our fantasies were dashed pretty quickly. The first night, we walked into the venue and saw a bunch of people dressed in the sexiest attire we could imagine think Vegas nightclub, but without any rules about indecent exposure.

Everyone looked smoking hot, but we couldn't for the life of us figure out how to talk to anyone. As we walked around, we noticed that everyone seemed to be hanging out in their own cliques.

We felt pretty awkward, but we soon realized that this is just natural human behavior. People gravitate toward those they already know.

And when you throw in the strong likelihood that you're going to be exchanging fluids with them later on in the evening, then of course, you're going to be a bit more discriminating about who you're hanging out with.

After two hours of hapless attempts to make eye contact and smile, we finally met a group who welcomed us into their circle.

But even then, we soon realized that a get-together of swingers doesn't always end in a massive orgy. Sometimes people just want to catch up.

The orgy with this group came the second night seriously, stop giggling. The first night was mostly flirting. And that's the weird thing that I never expected: how often you end up hanging around, joking and chatting with each other.

Because ultimately, these people are friends first albeit friends who make each other sticky. As we delved into the scene, we realized that every couple has their own specific interests.

Some prefer to attend parties and participate in orgies like my wife and I, as we soon realized. Some are more "introverted" I know, it's a weird term in this situation , preferring to meet other couples through the lifestyle websites.

Some couples will do everything but sex soft swap. Other couples will have sex full swap , but only if everyone is in the same room.

Many couples get into the lifestyle because the woman realizes she is bisexual, so they're looking for couples where the women can play with each other, but the men are only involved with their own partners, which may sound complicated or even frustrating for the man, but really is far from something to complain about.

And as we've mentioned before , there are "unicorns" -- single women who play with couples, so named because their rarity and allure are almost mythical.

Then there are the fake swingers. These couples tend to be younger. They attend all the big events, and if there's a stripper pole in the room, you can bet they'll be the first ones on it.

But when it comes down to the actual swinging, they're more into the exhibitionist aspect of the lifestyle and ultimately are not looking for sex with other couples.

Since each couple sets their own boundaries, when we're out meeting other swingers, the first thing we have to figure out is what they're into. There are so many different levels of swinging that even people who've been in the lifestyle for decades can't keep track.

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